Last month, I wrote the post Now Taking Applications For Mr. Right. It may have sounded like a joke, but I truly was looking.

Well, funny as it may seem, I actually have met someone through this blog. It’s a little more detailed than that, but I’m quite happy about it! In fact, I’m nothing but smiles these days.

This applicant’s a keeper! I first corresponded with him 3 years ago, and I never realized what was right there in front of me. At the time, I was in a relationship and he was too. His name is Graham, and I’ll have more to say on this topic in the future.

Sorry, boys. The position has been filled. ;)

Without looking it up, how many people know what the taint is?

Please post your answer in the comments. Thanks. ;)

I got this from The Covert Homo

1. Have you ever been searched by the cops?

Thankfully, no.

2. Do you close your eyes on roller coasters?

Part of the time.

3. When’s the last time you’ve been sledding?

Too long. If we ever get some decent snow here in TN, I should do that.

4. Would you rather sleep with someone else, or alone?

Someone else.

5. Do you believe in ghosts?

I’m pretty open minded about supernatural things, but I don’t have any strong opinions on ghosts. I know that we’re all made of energy, and I do believe that we can leave our energy behind after we die. So I believe in something.

6. Do you consider yourself creative?

Very.

Continue Reading…

Just because I felt like asking. I’m wearing blue.

If you could have a super power, what would it be? What would you do with it?

Post your answer in the comments.

I know my blog can be very confusing, especially if you’re new to it or just a casual reader. Things are typically written in order that they happened, however lately, I’ve taken a step back to the past to fill in the gaps of a story.

Let me give the summarized version:

I had a partner named Rodney from 2001-2009. There are dozens, maybe hundreds of posts that reference him in the archives. In March, I found out he’d been cheating on me, and that was first referenced in a post called Nothing Lasts Forever.

I got very quiet for awhile when that happened, and then in April, I began dating someone named Brandon. That was first referenced in a post called Here’s To New Beginnings. It didn’t turn into anything long term, but it was nice while it lasted.

Then at the end of May, I started dating someone named Nathan. That was mentioned in a post called It’s Never Too Late To Live Happily Ever After.

So that should get things up to speed. Nathan and I are still together and things are going quite well. In fact, I can’t emphasize enough how well things are going. ;) Let’s just say life is good.

Perhaps I’ll elaborate on that more later. But for now, I’ve jumped back to March to tell the story of how things ended with Rodney.

I said I wasn’t going to write anymore, and now I feel compelled. If I’m being truly honest, the real reason I stopped was because Rodney and Brandon read the blog. I felt uneasy knowing that my life was so open like that.

Maybe I just needed a break. I’m uncertain. But I’m working it out publicly, as I often seem to do.

I knew it would happen. As soon as I made the decision to stop writing here, I regretted it. As soon as I thought there was nothing more to say, I was flooded with dozens of ideas.

Well, for now anyway, I’m attempting to stay current on Twitter. If you’d like to keep up with me that way, please visit:

http://twitter.com/nathanexposed

And thank you so much for the moving words of support on my last post. It’s the interaction with you that I truly miss.

There are no words to convey how much having this blog has impacted me over the last 4 years. Having a place to divulge my most personal thoughts, feelings, and opinions has been life changing for me. I have been so touched by the kindness of strangers in good times and in bad. You’ve inspired me to believe there is an unlimited supply of love in the world. I am grateful for all of this.

It’s a hard decision to make, but I’ve decided that I no longer wish to write here. I haven’t been writing as often as I’d like to in the past few months, and I just don’t feel like I have much to say.

I was always a bit perturbed with other bloggers when they made a big, dramatic exit. So there will be none of that. I’m not going to proclaim that this is the end because I honestly can’t predict that. Maybe I’ll come back, maybe I won’t. It just depends on how things feel.

But for now, at least for the near future, this is where we say goodbye. Thank you for 4 amazing years of support in this journey of self discovery.

Think of me with a great big smile. :)

Ooh, it’s my favorite thread. A monthly post where comments are open for anyone and everyone to say what’s on their mind and what’s going on in their life.

So here goes… How is your month going? Leave a comment and tell me all about it.