Life doesn’t always go as planned. When I started this year, I was wrapped up in a comfy cocoon with my partner of 8 years. We didn’t go out much, we didn’t do much, and I really didn’t know that many people.

A lot of changes and surprises have taken place this year. Some good, some bad, but I keep getting up and moving forward.

The best thing I’ve done for myself has been getting out there and meeting new people. It was hard at first. I’m an introvert and I believe that’s an embedded trait. But I am friendly to people, I smile and I take a genuine interest in them. That gets me really far and people perceive me as a warm and thoughtful person. I enjoy it.

This is a photo that was taken last night at a bar. I was laughing and it’s authentic joy on my face. I thought it was worth sharing.

(If you look closely, there’s even some nipple pornage.)

Here’s to living!


9 Comments
    A Lewis (Wed, Oct 14, 2009 @ 2:52 pm )

    Nipple pornage aside, that dude on the left…..(to your right)….his hair…….I’m sort of after that effect……yes, even at MY age. I’m just sayin’

      Nathan (Wed, Oct 14, 2009 @ 2:56 pm )

      Haha. Well he’s 20. So you’d definitely be trendy if you tried it. I say go for it!

        Robert (Wed, Oct 14, 2009 @ 5:18 pm )

        Okay, that’s like the Golden Girls, plus one! jk! :-)

          irisgirl (Wed, Oct 14, 2009 @ 5:35 pm )

          The other best thing you’ve done for yourself this year is e-mailing a certain blog commenter to tell her how much you enjoyed her weird sense of humor…right?

            Scott C (Wed, Oct 14, 2009 @ 8:45 pm )

            I can definately tell fun was being had in this picture. And I didn’t even bother to look for the nipple pornage.

              Joe (Thu, Oct 15, 2009 @ 7:42 am )

              Ohhhh. Some seriously good looking boys in this picture. Must be all of that wholesome Appalachian living! Nathan….forget about finding yourself a boyfriend for now…..just continue to have a great time! You look radiant.

                Rodney (Thu, Oct 15, 2009 @ 9:39 am )

                Finally!!!! Get out and enjoy life. I’m so proud of the person you are. Keep smiling my friend….

                  Nathan (Thu, Oct 15, 2009 @ 5:07 pm )

                  Robert - And which one am I? ;)

                  Irisgirl - Very true, you’re the best! I love you!

                  Scott - That’s very civil of you, thanks.

                  Joe - I have no idea where you think I live, but your comment was so cute, I think it’s more fun that I just not correct you. ;)

                  Rodney - So essentially you’re saying that you’re glad I’ve turned into a slutty alcoholic since we broke up? I’m touched. Tee hee.

                    Sunshine (Tue, Oct 20, 2009 @ 5:10 am )

                    It’s good to see you genuinely happy, Nathan! And those nights out with friends are so much fun - I’d better go and organise another one with mine. :)

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