Nathan Exposed: the naked truth about my gay life

Yesterday marked 1 year since I officially started working for myself after quitting my job. The goal was simple: Embark on my own journey as a website designer, work from home, and live a stress free life.

Today I pulled up an ambitious calendar I’d planned for myself over 12 months ago. I’ve completely lost my way from this plan, and maybe I shouldn’t have. Maybe I had it right in the beginning:

MONDAY:
Networking (Basically this means spend time talking to potential clients)
Exercise
Meditate
Yoga

TUESDAY, WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY:
Design Work for Clients

Friday:
Exercise
Meditate

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What a brilliant plan. Only 3 full days of work, and a little networking on Monday. The other 2 days involved self improvement and rejuvenation. Saturday and Sunday weren’t even on the calendar, because I wanted those to be spontaneous.

How did I go wrong? I planned this out perfectly so that I could make a reasonable amount of income by just working this easy schedule. I wouldn’t be filthy rich, but that’s okay. I would be happy, and that was my whole reason for quitting my job in the first place.

But my real schedule is quite different from this one I planned. I work every day. I enjoy the work, I like the clients… but come on… I can’t go one day without thinking about my projects or checking my e-mail. The silly part is that most people aren’t even in a rush. If I didn’t check my e-mail one day, nobody would even notice or care. So why do I push myself?

Now that I’ve come full circle and survived the first year, I’m going to re-consider trying this plan I originally set for myself. I believe it can be done. Anything can be done if you put your mind to it!

I might have to stray just a little bit. I might have to respond to a few e-mails on a Friday, or do a little light work on a Monday. But that’s okay. I still think I should re-consider living life by the plan I set for myself. I should exercise, meditate, read more books. I should relax.

We’re responsible for our own futures. Nobody else can be blamed if life doesn’t turn out the way we planned. Don’t get me wrong… I’m very happy. But when I look at this schedule… that’s a pretty sweet life, you have to admit.

I can do it, I will.

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Sun, Mar 2, 2008 @ 1:48 pm | Filed in Abundance | Permalink 5 Comments

    Psst… you should network with me tomorrow, I think.

    Chris

    Posted by Chris M on Sun, Mar 2, 2008 @ 2:09 pm

      You know what I think? I think you’ve done yourself an amazing favor by even having a copy of the dream you came up with a year ago. And now you can see it. In front of you. It’s never too late to start over. Tomorrow? Great. We’ll be looking forward to your next update.

      Posted by Lewis on Sun, Mar 2, 2008 @ 5:04 pm

        You should go back to your original plan. It’s hard to stay with a plan at first, but it’s always good to go back and try to accomplish your original goals. That’s what I’m going to do.

        Posted by Bryan on Sun, Mar 2, 2008 @ 7:44 pm

          I think you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself, nathan. There are some threshold investments you need to make to operate your own business and time is just one of the many sacrifices you need to make to make the arrangement work. Give yourself a pat on the back - you’ve done great. :)

          Posted by Sunshine on Sun, Mar 2, 2008 @ 9:39 pm

            i need a plan so that in a year i can look back on it…

            Posted by chris on Mon, Mar 3, 2008 @ 10:14 am

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