Nathan Exposed: the naked truth about my gay life

Well hello old friend. I hope you’re doing well. It’s been a few days since we talked.

I’m just lounging here in my underwear, coughing up a lung. I seem to have started a new tradition: getting sick on Christmas. Last year, I spent Christmas in the hospital because I had vomited myself into dehydration. This year is less intense, but I do have a painful sore throat, ongoing cough, and pounding headache.

I’d been saving up my vacation days at work for months. I took the entire week after Christmas off with plans to have a wonderful, relaxing break. Um… not happening. But enough bitching. Christmas itself was pretty good.

L-O-V-E

Rodney and I have been buying each other cards for almost 6 years. We have never bought the same card. I always kind of wished we would. It just seems magical somehow. This year, it finally happened. We bought each other the same beautiful, sappy Christmas card. This made us both kinda mushy, because it felt like we were on exactly the same page.

More Smiling with the Family

Last year was plagued with arguing thanks to my brother and his wife. They decided to find their version of God and of course their version hates fags, so they tried to say Rodney wasn’t family and I was a bad influence on their kids.

This year, I was intent on keeping a positive attitude. At first, there was a lot of tension in the air at my parents’ house. I thought to myself “This is ridiculous. I’ve been through all kinds of struggles with homophobia in my life. I’m bigger than this. I refuse to be uncomfortable in the house I grew up in.”

So I started talking directly to my brother (he hates that) and conversing with his wife. I asked direct questions about their life, work, etc and that forced them to participate. Pretty soon, the tension was gone and we were all talking.

Not everything in life is about being gay. Rodney and I are humans, too.

All in all, it was pretty good. After they left, Rodney and I played a board game with my parents. That was a lot of fun too. Good times.

Ready for 2007

I always feel this inner excitement about the oncoming new year. I don’t know why. Time is just a concept, it doesn’t really matter what year we are in, right? But it always feels like a new start. I have learned so much in 2006, it feels like 10 years worth of knowledge rather than just 1. I’m ready to apply what I’ve learned to 2007, because I think it’s going to be an amazing year for me.

Happy New Year!

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Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 9:21 am | Filed in Family, Gay, Life | Permalink 10 Comments

    Happy New Year to you and Rodney! I’m looking forward to it as well. I’m glad you guys enjoyed your break. :)

    Posted by chip on Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 9:41 am

      Glad you had a nice Christmas, ‘cept for the jebus relatives and all that nonsense. All’s well that ends well. Happy New Year, Nathan.

      Posted by Steve on Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 3:38 pm

        All the best for 2007! Hope you feel better soon!

        Posted by TJ on Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 4:36 pm

          Welcome back and sorry you’re sick - I’m finally feeling better after a month of colds and bronchitis. Glad to hear all went well with the family. Feel better!

          Posted by DanNation on Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 4:56 pm

            By the way, my new URL is www.dannation.org…

            Posted by DanNation on Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 4:57 pm

              Boo hoo….for two reasons:
              1. I don’t like to hear that you’re sick
              2. I’m not there with you to lounge in underwear!
              Happy happy:
              1. Because you and Rodney took the upper road and dove right in, politely, and respectfully. So glad it worked out better than last year. Happy new Year to you both!

              Posted by Lewis on Fri, Dec 29, 2006 @ 9:03 pm

                awww Boo, iss’m sick?
                If you don’t behave, I’ll come over and cook you some chicken soup.

                Posted by DEL on Sat, Dec 30, 2006 @ 1:36 am

                  I’m sorry to hear that you are sick. I hope you’re getting better soon!
                  Happy New Year!

                  Posted by rian76 on Sat, Dec 30, 2006 @ 7:45 am

                    ahh I hope you get better soon ! :)
                    best wishes for you, your lover, and your family :)

                    Posted by alexsander on Sat, Dec 30, 2006 @ 4:40 pm

                      I’m so glad this year was much better than last. Well done with getting a breakthrough with your bro and sister in law! :)

                      Posted by enihsnus on Thu, Jan 4, 2007 @ 8:31 am

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